Have you ever felt the urge to express everything that is in your mind and perhaps in your heart but you feel as if you can’t do so without having anyone getting hurt? We often hinder ourselves from telling the truth or by avoiding the need to tell the truth, not lying, but just – as said. Why? We worry so much of what we say would affect us afterwards. Too much that we kept in to ourselves, and it’s eating us up inside. How often and how long do you think about a matter at hand? Me? Probably until it got resolved, or until I’m just too tired to even care about it – as if I quit.

What I dislike the most is when the matter of heart came in hand, it is best to be blunt and truthful. You’d think it will hurt the other person but having to know you have something to say but keeping it to yourself hurt even more.

Any sort of relationship won’t work when only either one of the party works hard for it to work. Any sort of relationship won’t last if only one side of the party gives effort into it.

Be mutual in getting the relationship to work, even if it doesn’t and you don’t think it can, then be blunt and tell the truth. It might hurt one side at that moment but if you just keep it to yourself and let the other know by him/herself that it isn’t working between the two of you, knowing that you are keeping something to yourself (& trust me the other side always know, will always be able to have a hunch of what is going on in your mind, and will always be let down by whatever you might be avoiding to tell) hurt so much, that it leaves a permanent scar for the rest of their lives.